hello alex, i'm interested in finding out which server you're talking about. there are two male servers that i know of at whole veg resto (unfortunately, it seems that both george and man no longer work there - they were so friendly and nice). one of the current male servers is always happy, smiley, and pleasant (with us, at least, so i'm hoping that your review isn't in reference to him; that would be disappointing for me). the other male server most certainly isn't pleasant; in fact, i've often wondered what size bamboo chopstick he has up his butt to make him so damn snooty and unpleasant. he used to work at the richmond bo kong, and was rude and less than professional toward me on more than two occasions. i used to get really steamed because we'd order soup and he wouldn't ladle the soup into our bowls, yet if a chinese family ordered soup, he'd patiently stand there and serve each one of them. a couple of weeks ago when we were in there, we asked for a little dish of sesame oil for our brown rice; his reaction to our request was a near sneer (he said, "sesame oil?!", but the way it came across was "and what are YOU going to do with sesame oil?"). we were a bit taken aback by his reaction, but whatever; he brought us our sesame oil, and we shrugged it off. also, if you're talking about the same server i'm thinking it could be, he always makes sure to hand me the interac terminal with the 'tip' option screen up when i'm paying for my takeaway. generally, i don't tip for takeaway, as there's no table or waiting service involved. in fact, the women who work there always hand me the debit terminal with the tip option screen bypassed, yet he stands there and watches me as i pay my bill (and no, i don't tip him at all when i pick up my food). if you have time, please let me know to which male server you're referring. i'm so hoping it's not the one who i think is the 'nice' one! take care.