Hi!
I am not trying to convert you. (Jews don't prostilyze we don't have to. We took the law, no one else wanted it)
I am a Jew as well.
In judiasm one only needs to attend Shul four times during the year on high holy holidays. (Holy in Hebrew means seperate from.) Passover, Yom Kippur, Ninth of Av and Rosh Ha'shana.
It's not the amount of time one attends any religious denomination that makes them spiritual. It is the relationship they have with the world.
I am a vegan thirty-one years (and a recovering agnostic lol ) I find that my relationship with G-d and the world is in conjunction with my love for all life. And that my being vegan and living that relationship within the world brings me to a more compassionate stance. That is how I experience my Judaism. Many Jews are vegan and there are actually kibbutzes that are centered around the Jewish vegan!
Our holy scriptures and our people are given the word from G-d to make the world a beautiful place for his arrival. We live in twenty-eight day cycles and on Sabbath celebrate the new moon (Rosh Kodesh) We uphold all life.
My veganinsm is so enveloped in that and the more I study (With the help of rabbis) I understand the love of our creator for his creation the better I feel about my relationship with him. And the world.
Kol Tovah
Racahel